Grief is sticky, a bit like those double-sided tape rollers used to remove lint from sweaters. Unresolved grief tends to act like a magnet and attract your more recent grief to stick around. This goes on under the radar and below our consciousness. It is not that we want to hang on to our grief - more it is we have forgotten how to fully clear it out of our system. So we … [Read more...]

I spent four days in Campbell River this past week and seven days in Yellowknife the week before. It was fun in both cities and we did lots of great work in the field of dying, death, grief, and loss. I had the joy of working with individuals and families helping them let go of past losses, under expressed grief, and unspoken regrets. Important work indeed and along with it I … [Read more...]

What is this thing called Death? I mean we all know what it means but there are so many questions around it. What kind of death will it be, when will it be, what happens after we die? When we are young we don’t think about death much. We are busy being invincible, living our Lives, raising children, searching for the perfect job, paying bills, and Life rushes past us. … [Read more...]